Gin & Zin

Life after 23andMe

 

This is Part Two of my journey. You can read part one here

 

Adjusting to a new reality

At the time I write this post, it has been three months since I received the results of a DNA test that confirmed my dad is not my biological father. A lot has taken place since then, and I continue to navigate unfamiliar situations and emotions every single day. Some days are filled with joy and blessings I never could have imagined; others are a struggle as I try to figure out how to reconcile my new reality with the past 33 years.

One thing I have come to believe is that the universe revealed my new truth to me at just the right moment, and in fact, has been preparing me for it for a long time. A few years after my dad died, an amazing women came into my life. She put her arms around me and has never let go. She taught me to trust again, and that it is possible to have family without blood to connect us. Because of her, I know what a healthy mother/daughter relationship feels like, and I wholeheartedly consider her my Mama now. She walked me down the aisle at my wedding and witnessed the birth of my daughter and son. My kids know her as Grandma and our family bond is deep, despite the fact that we don’t share DNA. I have also spent the last 10 years working with an amazing family whose children are all adopted. They are a normal, loving, rambunctious family, and the fact that the kids and parents aren’t biologically related has no effect on their love for each other. Read more

Domestic Blonde- DIY mama

My name is Kelly. I am a 34-year- old multi-tasker AKA mom of two wild babes, named Kade (4) and Tegan (1 ½). My husband and I have been married almost 6 years and live near San Diego where my he is a firefighter for SDFD. I am not originally from San Diego, but I do consider myself a native since I have lived here 13 years now!  Read more

23andMe: Painful Truths and a New Beginning.

This is Part 3 of my journey. You can find Part 1 here, and Part 2 here.

Meeting each of my brothers was literally a childhood dream come true. Being an only child can be a lonely existence, and of course I never expected to find siblings at this age. Both brothers have held my hand throughout this process, guiding me through the unknown. The more I get to know them, the more excited I am to belong to this unconventional family.

No matter when or how someone finds out they were conceived via donor, there are questions and significant emotions to wade through. Loren has known for as long as he can remember that he was donor conceived. Tim found out at 13 and I found out at 33. When we discovered that we had a sister, we knew that her experience could be similar to our stories, or something else entirely. Read more

I took the 23andMe test and it changed everything I thought I knew about myself and my family.  

Here is my story…

My name is Jaclyn and I am a 33 year old wife and mom of two. Before I answered to the names “Mrs. Baxter” and “Mommy,” I was an only child growing up in Pollock Pines, California. One thing you should know about me is that from day one, my dad and I were inseparable. To call me a Daddy’s Girl would be an understatement. Even though I always wanted siblings, my dad filled that void by being the best parent, confidant, and friend that I could ask for. He was was the greatest joy of my life for 18 years – my happy place. He died in my arms when I was 18 years old after a life filled with health issues, and his last words to me were “I love you.”

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Meet Bridget, on Healing

I am a busy mom of two very energetic and very strong-willed children. My son is 3 1/2 and my daughter turned one in June. We do a lot of reading, story telling and playing make-believe. My son has a very creative imagination and he never ceases to amaze me with it. I also have my own salon and work 2-3 days a week as well as being a wellness distributor for WIN Worldwide. My husband and I have been married for 5 years.

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Dorothy’s Interview: Type 1 Diabetes

Hi! My name is Dorothy.  I am a stay at home, home-schooling mom to three beautiful crazy stubborn talented girls. Faith is 12, Lilah is 9, and Mabel is 6. My husband is my rock and has been my constant companion for almost 18 years, I couldn’t do life without him.  We live on a pretty little piece of property with a basset hound, a bunny and a handful of chickens.

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Interview with Kristy- On loss, flying solo, and growth

My name is Kristy Romney. I am a 32 years old and new to the world of being a stay at home mom. I used to be a store manager of one of northern California’s busiest drive thru stores for the past 5 years until last year when I was given the opportunity to be a stay at home mom and run my own business with Rodan+Fields skincare company.

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Tillie’s Mom~ Adventures with Breastfeeding

Meet Casey~

I’m a playful yet practical, outspoken yet introspective, courageous yet cautious gal who loves making things with my hands, planning parties, playing strategy games and drinking red wine (preferably a good Malbec). Read more

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